Ready to Feel More... Love More... and Enjoy More... 

I empower you to create fulfilling and satisfying sex and intimacy, lasting a lifetime!

Hi! I'm Amy Rowan, the Suburban Sexologist

Busy women and moms, I see you.

I AM you. Taxi driver, scheduler, cook, emotional support, teacher, shopper, manager of ALL THE THINGS.

Then, add in trying to be a good partner, a good friend, a good daughter, a good sister, stay healthy and fit, drink enough water…oh yeah and don’t forget doing something for yourself.

As if we have time for that!

And just as you're finally settling down for some well-deserved rest, your partner reaches over for a little lovin’ and all you can think is...

.....not tonight, no way.

Are you feeling guilty for falling asleep with your back to your partner….again?

Do you pull away when your partner touches you outside the bedroom, because you aren’t sure if they want something more?

Are you tired of “taking one for the team"

week after week?

It's a scenario I understand

all too well.

You want to reclaim that spark, or perhaps you just WANT to want to. But amidst the chaos of everyday life, sex has plummeted to the bottom of your endless to-do list.

Believe me, I've been there. With three kids and a marriage spanning two decades, I've navigated the same challenges—and yet,

I've maintained an incredible sex life.

You’re here because you want to...

  • Resolve sexual issues and conflicts that are holding you back from experiencing deep intimacy.

  • Experience more pleasure so you can have MORE fun and LESS stress in your relationship. 

  • Rekindle the spark so you can enjoy more passion, pleasure, and satisfaction, without shame, guilt, or fear of rejection.

  • Break free from the patterns that keep you stuck in a rut of boredom, frustration, and resentment.

  • Explore new possibilities and discover what TRULY turns you on. 

  • Align your mind, emotions, body, energy, and spirit with your sexual essence so you can feel whole, authentic, and empowered in your sexuality. 

  • Develop a deeper connection with yourself and your partner.

  • Never have to compromise your needs, desires, or boundaries just to please others. 

  • Overcome feelings of insecurity, inadequacy, or trauma.

  • Cultivate unshakeable confidence in your attractiveness.

I'm going to show you how to UNLOCK and ENHANCE both your sexual desire and pleasure -

boosting your intimacy, connection, and happiness in your relationship.

But before I do, let me go ahead and finish introducing myself…

My name is Amy Rowan

I’m a Board Certified Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sexual Health Educator and graduate from Sex Coach University.

Sex hasn’t always been easy for me either....

Life threw its curveballs, including a double mastectomy at 38, leaving me grappling with uncertainty about my body and intimacy.

But, with conscious effort, vulnerability and a lot of work, I can happily say that we weathered that experience and our relationship and sex life are light years better than before.

I've been in the trenches and come out stronger, happier, with a rock solid relationship to prove it. How?

That's why I do what I do.

Working with me is the MASTER KEY to experiencing sexual fulfillment

The KEY to unlocking your fullest-potential in achieving the intimate life you deserve......

While becoming a MASTER of your own sexual self-awareness, instead of avoiding it and hoping it will magically get better, one day.

Over the past 14 years, I have helped thousands of women and couples ignite their passion, expand their eroticism, and consciously create the sex lives they never knew were possible!


Wonderful experience working with Amy! She's kind, knowledgeable and a great professional.


Working with Amy was fun and enlightening. The best part for me was learning a whole new vocabulary and framing communication in a constructive way. Thanks Amy.


Amy Rowan is the full package! She is professional, knowledgeable, makes great observations and is skilled with asking all the right questions. She has great intuition and draws on her education and experience to round out her work as a coach.


Amy is so easy to talk to...and she gives great advice. I felt like I was talking to a friend


Working 1:1 with Amy is great! She challenges you to explore and stretch yourself. Together you come up with a plan.
A true collaboration! She is thorough in providing Recaps of all sessions and setting goals to work on before the next appointment. I have full trust and confidence in Amy and her abilities. I always look forward to talking and learning from her and with her - a partnership! Amy is genuine, she recognizes and celebrates the victories (big or small) with you.

I specialize in

Unlocking Pleasure & Passion

Finding Your Fire Again

Resolving Desire Mismatches

Expanding Erotic Ecstasy

Intimacy Product Advice

Now with all that said, let's dive deeper...

You're here because you're a woman or a couple who wants to experience more

fulfillment and deeper connection in your sex life...

  • Maybe you're so busy trying to take care of others that you don't even know what you want or need…

    …Ignoring your own desires, fantasies, and boundaries. Feeling guilty, ashamed, or bored with your sexuality. Settling for mediocre or unsatisfying sex. 

  • Maybe you feel like you're missing something, constantly searching for more passion and excitement...

    ... Feeling frustrated, lonely, or disconnected from your partner. Struggling with mismatched libidos, sexual dysfunctions, or intimacy issues. Craving for more variety, adventure, and eroticism. 

  • Maybe you're too afraid to explore your true potential, so you just keep doing what you've always done...

    ... Hiding your authentic self, suppressing your emotions, and limiting your expression. Avoiding communication, confrontation, or change. Feeling stuck, unfulfilled, and unhappy.

In other words...

If you feel like something is "off" and holding you back from the sexual self-awareness, pleasure, and satisfaction you deserve, then...

What you're going to discover working with me will change your life.

As a certified Clinical Sexologist, Sexual Health Educator, and Sex & Intimacy Coach

my transformative approach will help you

Ignite your passion, resolve your conflicts, and expand your possibilities... 

EMPOWER you to embrace your sexuality, explore your desires, and express your needs...

And allow you to have MORE fun, joy, and intimacy in your life overall.


Even if....

  • You're stuck in a rut of routine and boredom and never try anything new. 

  • You're so focused on your work and responsibilities that you are neglecting your relationship and your own well-being. 

  • You're always comparing yourself to others and feeling insecure or inadequate about your body, your performance, or your partner. 

  • You're always worried about what other people think of you and your sexuality rather than focusing on what you really want. 

  • You're so busy trying to avoid pain that you're missing out on pleasure. 

  • You're afraid to fail, so you avoid taking risks and challenging yourself in your sexual growth and exploration. 

  • You're indecisive and always second-guessing yourself and your choices. 

  • You're suffering from trauma, abuse, or illness and know you have healing potential, but can't seem to access it. 

  • You're stuck in a cycle of shame, guilt, and fear that prevents you from enjoying your sexuality.

This might be hard to believe for someone like you.

Because if you’re still reading this page…

You’ve probably tried every solution imaginable…

  • Chatting with healthcare pros to tackle any physical or mental blocks to your passion. Things like hormone levels, health conditions, or emotional hurdles.

  • Trying out meds or natural boosts that promise to turn up the heat in the bedroom.

  • Diving into therapy or heart-to-hearts, solo or with your partner, to smooth out any bumps in your emotional connection that might be putting a damper on things.

  • Shaking up your daily routine with some good ol' exercise, nutritious eats, quality sleep, and stress-busting techniques - all to help you feel like your best, most vibrant self.

  • Experimenting with different ways of enhancing their sexual pleasure, intimacy, and connection, such as using sex toys, trying new positions or techniques,

But here’s something to ponder: 

Has any of this brought about lasting transformation?

Do you find yourself slipping back into old patterns and states of mind?

Ever wonder why that is?

That's because most solutions only address one or two aspects of your sexuality, while ignoring the rest. They don't take into account the whole picture of who you are as a sexual being, and how your mind, emotions, body, energy, and spirit all play a role in your intimate life.

That's why I have leveraged a unique and holistic approach to sex and intimacy coaching, based on the MEBES model (created by Dr. Patti Britton).

MEBES stands for Mind, Emotions, Body, Energy, and Spirit

The five dimensions of your sexuality that need to be aligned and balanced for you to experience true fulfillment and connection.

The MEBES model is not a one-size-fits-all formula, but a personalized and flexible framework that adapts to your needs, goals, and preferences.

I will help you explore each dimension of your sexuality, identify your strengths and challenges, and create a customized plan to enhance your sexual self-awareness, pleasure, and expression.

By addressing the complexities of the mind, emotions, body, energy, and spirit, I helped hundred clients achieve lasting and profound change in their intimate lives. 

I will help you break free from the cycle of temporary fixes and embark on a journey toward genuine sexual self-awareness and fulfillment.

Want to work with me? Explore these options

1:1 Coaching for

Women and Couples

Using evidence-based strategies, practical tools, and compassionate guidance, I will help you overcome challenges, build confidence, and create fulfilling sexual experiences that align with your unique needs and desires.

Intimacy Ignite Group

Coaching Program

A monthly subscription that includes a wealth of life-changing activities and techniques, a comprehensive set of resources to help you unravel the complications of communication, plus invaluable LIVE support from me, every month that you are in the program.


Amy makes talking about sex seem like the most normal thing in the world. She is personable and easy to talk to. Very much like a neighbor next door, just one who knows way more about sex than your actual neighbor! She is able to clarify your issue, meet you right where you are, and skillfully gives you next steps that are just enough of a challenge but not too much of a stretch. She is a wealth of knowledge and there is huge benefit to working with her.


I can't thank you enough for the time and attention you have provided. You gave me some really great insight and ways to explore my sexuality and to become more confident in myself while partaking in this journey. You helped me come out of my shell in order to express my desires, likes, and dislikes to my partner. I feel more secure in who I am and what I can be/do. I could not have learned how to be more expressive, confident and positive about myself as a person and in the bedroom with my partner without your support and coaching.

Do you want to experience a more fulfilling sex life, but don't know how?

You need a knowledgeable guide who can give you the map. I support women and couples in overcoming in common concerns such as low or mismatched desire levels, little to no sex in the relationship, difficulty (or never) experiencing orgasm, painful intercourse, vaginismus, sexual inhibition, lack of bedroom confidence, poor body image, aversion to touch, and communication conflicts.


A big thank you to you, Amy, for your recommendations and your lives!!! Showing us how things work takes all the guesswork out of experiencing pleasure!


Amy is so easy to talk to...and she gives great advice. I felt like I was talking to a friend


Amy is the best! She truly has a passion for women’s health and for helping her clients. So fun and easy to work with and she will answer any questions you have.


I have been a client of Amy's for years now. she is the best, always doing everything she can to make sure we are happy and orgasmic

I empower your journey of sexual self-awareness so you can consciously create satisfying sexual experiences

Interested in Intimacy Products but Don't Know What to Get?

So many choices, but what is right for you?? Shopping online can be confusing and, let's be honest, you never know what will show up.

As an intimacy toy expert for over 14 years, I will teach you about intimacy products and help you make the right choice for you. The products I recommend have been carefully curated to give you the most pleasure, the best warranties, from brands I personally know and trust. No more guesswork! All orders will be filled by Sultry Company, owned by fellow Sexologist Tiara Trudeau-Gullotta.

Your private shopping session is only $75, and you will receive 10% off your entire order, plus a gift bag valued at $20.


What is the minimum number of sessions?

For most sexual concerns, we begin with 6 sessions, including the discovery call. Typical issues, such as low libido or orgasm problems take at least 12 sessions to have tangible and long last effects. At the first consultation, I give you an estimate and recommendation of a package.

Do I need to pay upfront?

Yes. I offer flexible payment plans, a pay in full discount and utilize PayPal Pay It Later.

Do you accept insurance?

I am not a medical professional, so insurance companies do not cover sex coaching.

Are there other ways to work with you?

I offer different group classes throughout the year and have courses available for purchase. Click here for a list of current options.

Can you invoice me?

Yes I can send invoices. Please let me know that is how you prefer to pay.

What if I have to reschedule?

I have a written cancellation and rescheduling policy. Each package has an expiration date. Within that time, you can reschedule (subject to availability) your sessions if you inform me at least 24 hours before our session.

Do you offer in person sessions?

I see most clients of my clients via zoom, but if you are interested in in-person sessions let me know. Try my free online consultation and we can discuss any concerns you have with online coaching.

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